Love vs Compatibility: Which One Should You Marry For?

Marriage is more than a celebration with rings, cake, and matching outfits. It's a lifelong commitment that can shape your happiness, health, and success. Yet, many rush into it based on temporary feelings, pressure, or convenience. So how do you choose the right partner to marry — someone who complements your life, values, and vision? Here are key factors to consider before saying “I do.” 1. Shared Values Over Shared Interests You may love the same music or both enjoy hiking, but those are just hobbies. What truly matters is whether you share core values — honesty, family, faith, money mindset, parenting beliefs, ambition, and even how you handle conflict. Ask yourself: Do we both want the same kind of future? Do we both value commitment, loyalty, and personal growth? If your values don't align, love may not be enough to hold the relationship long-term. Shared Values Over Shared Interests: Why They Matter in Choosing a Life Partner In the early stages of a relationship, it’s e...