Love, Health, and Money: Building Strong Relationships That Thrive in Every Area

Last night, I had a dream that left me in tears—but also reminded me of the power of faith and the presence of God in even our most broken places. In the dream, I was walking home from work with colleagues, and alongside me was Mercy-pregnant colleague. At some point, our paths separated, and I found myself in an unfamiliar environment. It looked old, dusty, and worn—a place that mirrored deep poverty. There, I met a grieving woman holding a lifeless baby in her arms. The child’s face was bruised with red marks, and the woman wept hopelessly. Nearby, another woman held the other two children. It became clear—this was a mother of triplets, and she had just lost one. What happened next was divine. I asked to hold the baby. I began to pray, speak life, and declare restoration over the child. Slowly, the baby began to breathe. The bruises faded. The child cried—and came back to life. The mother, overwhelmed with joy, held her baby once again. I told her, "Always pray. Believe. Have fa...

Trust is the heartbeat of every strong relationship. Without it, even the most passionate love can turn cold, leaving behind confusion, emotional distress, and heartbreak. When doubt creeps in, it doesn’t just stay in the background—it grows, infects communication, intimacy, and peace of mind. In this post, we explore the warning signs of distrust, its damaging effects, and how to reclaim peace and restore a healthy bond.   Signs of Lack of Trust. Sometimes, distrust isn’t always loud or obvious. It sneaks in through small actions that pile up over time.  Lack of trust in a relationship is like a silent poison—it doesn’t always make noise, but it slowly eats away at the bond between two people. When you don’t trust your partner, every message, phone call, or late arrival becomes a reason for worry or suspicion. Instead of enjoying the relationship, you become a detective, constantly searching for signs of betrayal. This constant state of doubt creates anxiety, not just in the ...

Marriage is more than a celebration with rings, cake, and matching outfits. It's a lifelong commitment that can shape your happiness, health, and success. Yet, many rush into it based on temporary feelings, pressure, or convenience. So how do you choose the right partner to marry — someone who complements your life, values, and vision? Here are key factors to consider before saying “I do.” 1. Shared Values Over Shared Interests You may love the same music or both enjoy hiking, but those are just hobbies. What truly matters is whether you share core values — honesty, family, faith, money mindset, parenting beliefs, ambition, and even how you handle conflict. Ask yourself: Do we both want the same kind of future? Do we both value commitment, loyalty, and personal growth? If your values don't align, love may not be enough to hold the relationship long-term. Shared Values Over Shared Interests: Why They Matter in Choosing a Life Partner In the early stages of a relationship, it’s e...