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Why You Really Need To Let The Man Go.

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        .   You make him a better man but, he doesn’t make you a better woman. You are not really happy. You’re in a relationship with this man and things are not working the way you expect them to be.There has been drama a lot of unfulfilled needs and so you need to let him go.Bad, and unhealthy and toxic relationships show you are in a wrong place. Here are the reasons why you should let him go. There are so many women in a relationship who try to validate whether it is kids, marriage or whatever values that you need and they do not relate to your partner’s- you don’t share the same things, then he is not the right person to be with.A man can be a nice guy, loving, not abusive but, when you don’t share the same page with him... It can be very difficult to let go of what seems to be a great guy for so many reasons. What you need to understand is that it is not worth holding on to because all you will end up in is resentments and disappointments, h...

The Honest Flake

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  That Friday morning at around 9:30am, they noticed a white salon car slowly   driven into the school compound. The driver, seemed   unfamiliar with the environment from the way he was driving, popping out his elongated neck through the window looking for a place to park. It was his slow movement that caught their attention as he carefully parked the machine under the tall umbrella green leaved jacaranda tree. " Is the county Director of Education and his team paying us another visit in school today?" asked one of my colleagues passing by briskly. He quickly dashed into the staffroom rushing to put all his documents in order. Following the previous term's unannounced visit by the team, nobody wanted to be caught unaware in such a mess again. Failing to keep your teaching materials, learning and professional documents in order meant lack of quality and skills as a professional teacher.  The man took  five minutes or so  before he could get out of the...

The Insurance Deal

  Everyone looked at the deputy.   Looking very angry because nobody was giving her the attention that she needed. "Excuse me colleagues? The gentleman that you are seeing standing here right next to me, has come from the County and he wants to sell to us something.... some goods and services.   Let him introduce himself and thereafter tell you why he is here."   They all stopped doing what had busied themselves to to give the gentleman their attention. At   least there's no cause for alarm since the man did not seem to come from the County Director's Office of Education. It was indeed a relief...   He was a salesperson from Garrison's Home and Utensils Services. He was selling kitchenware and household goods. After his introduction, another man walked into the staffroom. He was his business partner but, from the look of things, the person who was doing the marketing looked more like his manager. He carried all the stuff that they needed to showca...

BURNOUT, DEPRESSION AND SUICIDE.

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  Like living between a rock and a hard place, life has suddenly become more difficult to understand.   With the many unemployment rates, crimes in the streets, environmental pollution and to top it all, the spiralling upward cost of living has made it even more stressful for the human race. Today’s society is full of people learning to get opportunities in the working environments. Unluckily even with their best quality acquired knowledge and skills with certification, there isn’t employment. Job markets have become so competitive that one has to fight through their ways to at least get recognised. This has happened through connections or even by lady luck's choice. Imagine a freshly made graduate from the University who has to fight for a chance in the working society.   There could be reasons why they fight for better chances.   Some want to get the jobs so that they can be fit in the society – prove that they are capable of being independent and that the...

Dear Friends

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  Dear friends We met by chance, we met by coincidence or fate. But I care about you anyway. I don’t care how you look or where you come from. Your background is not you. I only care to walk with you in this life and your Dreams.   To hold your hand when you can’t walk. Let’s walk this journey of life together. When you are happy dear friend, I am happy too. When you feel stressed and depressed let me be your Shoulder to lean on and not your fake one, To talk about poor you behind your back.   Don’t sideline me when you feel you have become better Than me or that I have better than you. We are different in our own unique ways. Don’t cancel our meetings because you have No time for me dear friend or that your House is in a mess.   It doesn’t matter how you look today When all is gone and you are not yourself. Let me be by your side and walk the path of life With you dear friend. Because that, is how we make ...

The Season.

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  At first, the lands are so dry and dusty.   No one wants to take the path Since it leads to no destination. And the people wish for the rains to clear The paths and let the dust settle. Because it irritates them.   Without warning from the sky, There is a sign. The cloudy wind gathers  the dark clouds in line. And the smell of rain is felt in the warm wind whirling To set the day for the right season. For it’s been long since the rains reigned, taking Power over the dust that sat with pride on her throne.   Do you feel the drizzle? It’s touching my face . Embracing it with a longing of place. I can hear the fall of rains The patrichor makes it more beautiful  Like the sound of the drum Carrying along with it the beating of their heartbeats, Counting every second made In the light of the falling rains.

6 Ways that Men Can Escape Poverty.

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1.   Get the right woman. Forget the slay queens and women with looks but zero brains. Get a woman who will not only support your vision but will also push you to achieve more. A woman who will inspire you to work hard and not a woman who just makes you hard. He who finds a real woman finds a good thing and obtains favour and power to create wealth.  2.      Stop taking cheap drinks.  There is no problem with having drinks during social interaction and networking. However, when you drink cheap drinks or drink in cheap places, you hang out with cheap people who have cheap ideas and a cheap future. Big business opportunities are found in places where the drinks are expensive. In fact, in places where they sell cheap drinks, the only people you will find there are people who will be asking you for money. They even clap when you come knowing 'big buyer' has come. 3.                         ...

Competency Based Curriculum

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  Competency Based Curriculum is a new way of learning where the new system caters for all the needs of the learners in the education curriculum. Mission ·         To identify the potential of the learners. ·         Nurture the potential. ·         All learners to be successful in their learning.   Vision. The Competency Based Curriculum’s vision is to ensure that all the learners are engaged , empowered and that they become ethical citizens. When we look at some of the changes in CBC, it is quite different from the traditional knowledge education. The transition is from less to more exposure to the learner’s benefit. Traditional knowledge.     CBC tries to shift in the traditional knowledge which is mainly: ·         Content focus. ·         Rigid and prescriptive c...

We See No Changes

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  We see no changes in our midst, No hope for the current generation lifespan Or is it the forefathers that forced the spell to split us? Why there is much mirage on a people’s hope. And the heroes hearts bleed and yet no bloodshed from the heart.     A mother struggling to see her child through The tough journey of schooling. Her husband she says Long lost and disappeared at her child’s birth. She loses no hope, since   the sun still sets on the Homes of the heroes and the frail.   A father feeling furious for his son’s actions He sees shame and deception drain in his fibbery face He can’t stand it, his once cherished shied and treasure Of a family’s hope has turned out to be the City’s threat. The sound of the bewitching breaks his heart as he’s left living In fear of a shocking news of a sudden arrest.   At the break of dawn, another child has disappeared It’s weeks since one was found mutilated and burnt No ev...

Fighter

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  Her den has an unwelcomed visitor She waits to attack or be dead. Her bravery pays off.  And Her beautiful cubs safe in her arms Like a tiger fights for her rightful place  To be safe